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"I can’t see pictures!"
When I was assisting on Dr Richard Bandler’s London
seminars, I could guarantee that during some of the NLP exercises at least
five delegates would voice the immortal phrase, “I can’t see
pictures!”
The use of semantics and the power of suggestion
On one occasion I worked with a delegate during a seminar
who insisted that although he couldn’t see pictures, he could effortlessly
describe the position of all his furniture and décor throughout
his home! He described this process as his ability to obtain “visual
representations!” We therefore proceeded to complete the exercises
from that part of the seminar as I rephrased my questions to instead ask
him about his “visual representations”
When someone makes the statement “I can’t
see pictures”, this is of course a generalisation, which they are
feeding back from their own unique perspective (no pun intended!). Often
they will have some sense of visual location, but their pictures may “not
yet” be in focus.
Many people will indicate that they can “imagine”
seeing something as opposed to “seeing something”, if you
ask them to! The use of language therefore plays a key part in how our
attention is directed and when working with someone it’s useful
to listen to their own language patterns and phrasing to facilitate easy
communication.
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Many people will be so preoccupied in talking to
themselves that they are literally too distracted by their own thoughts
to really notice what is occurring in their visual medium. I remember
once suggesting that a delegate turn down the volume of their internal
dialogue to notice how this affected their ability to see their
own pictures. In just a few seconds he began to notice how his pictures
began to be more in focus, by this one simple adjustment. Of course
as previously mentioned the phrasing of any questioning can be crucial
as some people would consider “hearing voices” as being
a sign of insanity, whereas thinking to themselves or talking to
themselves could be seen in an entirely different way.
On another occasion by muting the internal dialogue,
a delegate discovered that their visual representations became more
noticeable. Previously they had been so “distracted”
by their own self-talk that they were not still and composed enough
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and begin to relax…
Another factor in improving the ability to see
pictures is to explore a person’s breathing patterns. One
of the most effective ways to change a person’s states is
to change these patterns. The rate that people breathe is a major
factor in determining the manner and rate in how they think. I have
noticed from 25 years of teaching meditative systems, that even
the simplest of meditations where a person pays more attention to
their rate of breathing, will produce an increased sense of relaxation.
As people relax more, they develop a greater ability to see pictures.
More advanced systems of meditation can develop extraordinary sensory
acuity both in the visual and auditory cortex’s.
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Using geometrical
shapes to improve concentration and noticing
Another technique that can help in accessing pictures
is to begin to develop an ability to differentiate between different
colours in different geometrical shapes. I have already outlined
some of these exercises in the article on colour on this site. By
focussing on a red triangle externally and then practising representing
the same image internally, visual acuity can be developed. A more
advanced way of doing this is in using correctly constructed mandalas
that are designed to use the science of colour and geometry to generate
specific altered states.
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A deficiency of minerals or vitamins can affect
concentration and the ability to access pictures. For example a
deficiency of manganese will severely inhibit the ability to visualise
and fully use the visual representation system. Also particular
stimulants will produce their own “altered states” although
perhaps not in a manner that is useful to generate this greater
ability to see pictures!
I remember dealing with a client on a London seminar for a well know hypnotist
seminar, who anxiously commented that, he couldn’t see pictures
and who seemed to me to be quite hyperactive. I subsequently discovered
that by 10am that morning, he had already drunk three espresso coffees
and smoked four cigarettes, creating a wonderful state of being
completely “wired!” As he began to relax more and drink
some water, (introducing some much needed oxygen into his system),
he began to see his pictures more clearly.
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Pick a picture, any
picture, but make it a memorable one!
We know from NLP that people unconsciously delete,
generalise and distort information. For many (except perhaps some
accountants) the image of completing a tax return will produce a
very different dynamic to recalling the time when you first kissed
your first girlfriend or boyfriend. If I am working with someone
in improving visual acuity I will always ask him or her to pick
an event or person that has a strong positive association! I remember
Dr Bandler asking a delegate who commented that he couldn’t
see pictures to “imagine sucking on his girlfriend’s
tit” (his phrasing, not mine!) which certainly produced a
noticeable change of state both in the subject and those watching!
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If all else fails, its time to go into deep
trance…
Sometimes if other approaches don’t produce
the appropriate result, its easier to take the person into a deep
trance and ask their unconscious what would be needed in order for
them to make whatever changes seem most appropriate to improve visual
acuity. This can be done directly or through metaphor with careful
attention to voice tone, and mirroring the person’s own representative
visual language.
Finally in my experience its not that people “can’t
see pictures,” it’s just that they are more used to
using other representational systems!
Now, do you “see my point?”
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the resources section above and navigate to 'Free Exercises' or you can
click the titles as follows: IMPROVING VISUAL
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